My husband is not attracted to me!
We have been married for a little over a year, and last night I could take it any more so I just flat out asked him why I can���t get his attention. For the past few months I have tried EVERYthing to get him to really look at me. My hubby is a very honest man so he did not hold anything back and he bitched about everything about my body!! Ok I take that back he did not say anything bad about my butt.
The whole time I have been with him my hair has been light blonde ( my natural color) and he told me that he did not like blondes, he wishes my hair was black. When we first met I was about 135lbs
( im 5 10) then when we had are son I went up to 180lbs, HE was not happy about that and he let me know it, so after our son was born I worked my ass off, I am back to 135 (go me������.. I thought) b/c I lost the weight so fast it made my boobs A LOT smaller, now I am at a 36D. And he now hates my boobs, but wants me to lose more weight!
I don���t want to change who I am, but I want so bad just to make him happy!! Everything else in our relationship is fine; I don���t know how this happened!
A few months ago when I asked him what he wanted me to do different he said it would be nice if I got my nails done, did my hair, and make up EVERYDAY. SOOOOOOOO I did he never said anything, he never noticed.
OH but at the same time when his friends are around he talks about ���how hot��� I am. So is he just doing this to break me down, for so sick reason??
He gets so mad when I am upset, but he pushes and pushes until I lose it and start crying. He is a great guy I just don���t know why he is say this now, when have been together for 6 years. Do men just change like that?